Last summer a bride wanted electric blue hydrangeas for her vineyard ceremony. The final photos looked so cheap and mismatched with all that natural wood. I learned to just nod and accept some ideas are beyond saving.

Explaining risk isn't enough, @faith_thomas.

Seriously, it makes everything look so easy when you don't see the real-time mess ups. That totally sets you up to feel like a failure when your first try isn't perfect.

Read a whole column that said the same thing last week.

Understand wanting to share what you know.