A heated debate at our book club meeting in Austin over annotating books: do you write in the margins or keep them clean? We almost split the group in two. | Book Club Debates - Babble Community
A heated debate at our book club meeting in Austin over annotating books: do you write in the margins or keep them clean? We almost split the group in two.
Last week at our book club meeting in Austin, we discussed a book and two members got into a huge argument about writing in books. One said making notes helps you remember and connect ideas, while the other said it ruins the book and you should use sticky notes instead. We ended up with half the group defending each side and the meeting ran 45 minutes over. Now we're stuck on whether to make a rule about it. Should book clubs have a policy on this, or is it a personal choice that shouldn't matter?
A rule about this is completely nuts. What someone does with their own book is nobody's business but theirs, and trying to police it in a club is just going to make people feel judged for no reason. Our club has the same mix, some people scribble all over the pages and some keep them spotless, and nobody cares because it has zero effect on the actual talk. If notes help you remember stuff, write them. If marked up pages bother you, use your sticky notes. Both work fine. The real issue here is that two people turned a personal habit into a fight, and the club is about to reward that by making an official policy. Let it go and get back to talking about the books.